Monday, May 6, 2013

Message to Parents-Handbook Clarifications


A message to Parents and Guardians;

Last week I spoke to the students and staff about some points of emphasis I identified as needing some attention. All of the topics discussed were in the handbook already. I simply clarified how I was going to enforce the current language and stated that I was going to become less lenient. I was being proactive and felt that was the best way to explain my expectations. The examples I used came from Pride of Iowa Conference Schools and other school handbooks.

When thinking about making changes, I always use the analogy of what do I want visitors to our building to see and hear, and the feelings they take away from the visit. Thinking about that analogy, I felt uncomfortable and believe things needed to be tightened up. I could have waited until next year but after some serious consideration, I decided not to wait.

I will use common sense when enforcing the dress code policy. I will also side on being more strict than lenient. I feel I have been lenient, but was not getting the desired results. Dress codes are very difficult to define. I will do my best and I will always be honest with students and parents about my expectations. I will not spend much time with students who are going to test or push the boundaries with these policy clarifications. They will either change their clothes or be sent home. When speaking about appropriate dress, I think this statement clarifies the question: IF YOU THINK THAT THERE MIGHT BE SOME QUESTION ABOUT WHAT YOU WEAR BEING INAPPROPRIATE, DO NOT WEAR IT.

As educators, maybe the most important lesson we can teach students deals with citizenship. As citizens we will always have rules to follow. They may change depending on whether it is federal, state or local. We have rules for the workplace and there are rules for school. Sometimes we may agree or disagree but there is a process to follow when we disagree. Choosing to break a rule then argue with the consequence is not the lesson we should be teaching our students.
I hope I have your support as we work to prepare our students for post-high school and to be great citizens.

Points of Emphasis Summary

This is what was explained to the students and staff.

The points of emphasis are;

Tardiness -
Explained the current handbook language and explained that it will be enforced as written.

Public display of affection -
Defined as holding hands, kissing, hugging, sitting or standing extremely close to one another, or provocative touching. These rules apply to the school grounds and activities.

Dress Code -
Shorts/skirts may be worn only if they are roughly mid-thigh length or longer and not too revealing. Spandex is not considered appropriate for outerwear because of being too tight. Any clothing containing shoulder straps will need to have a minimum of two inches of width and not too revealing to be considered appropriate. Tube tops, tank tops and halter-tops must be covered by another shirt. No hats, caps, sweatshirt hoods and sunglasses can be worn during the school hours which is defined as the warning bell to the end of school bell. Wearing pants or shorts with holes or tears above the knees and are too revealing are not allowed. Clothing that is too tight is inappropriate for school. Shirts must be long enough to meet the beltline. No undergarments can be visible. No shirts with double meanings. Mesh or see through shirts that are too revealing are not allowed.

Profanity - number one priority.
Teachers will address the language with the student and send me an email stating you spoke to a student. I will then record it. Multiple offenses will lead to detentions.

Detentions
 They will be tightened up and current language enforced. This may involve loss of extra-curricular participation if not served within the first 48 hours.

Detention Guidelines
Visiting or talking to other students, sleeping, having food or drinks while assigned a detention is not permitted. Students are to bring work to do or bring something to read. Cell phones can only be used with permission. Computers can be used for educational purposes only and with permission. Failure to comply with the rules or supervisor will result in another detention.